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 I'm ready to start repacking after reading this book!
This book is amazing. This is a great book for someone that is in a transitional stage of their life (as I am) or someone that is looking to change careers. Some of the things that it talks about (i.e. getting rid of the things you no longer need, asking yourself what you want to do with the rest of your life) are things that I had already thought about before reading the book, however, the authors gave me a more structured way to think about it.
 Inspiring
"Repacking Your Bags" provides me with great pointers in how to 'Live passionately for today & purposefully for tomorrow'. It is greatly engaging, & has inspired & guided me to align the four essential elements (relationship, work, place, purpose) of a happy life.
Generally helpful, but very couple-oriented
This book is a pleasant, amusing, readable way of addressing the major issues that confront one at midlife: Am I living a life that accords with my values, ideals, and talents? If not, what specifically needs to be changed so I can achieve this? I found the "unpacking" metaphor especially appealing because (as an ardent traveler) I well know the real-life value of traveling light; it was rather astonishing to me to discover how much of a pack rat I've been in other aspects of my life! On the other hand, as a single person with many friends but no life partner (and no desire for one), I found that the authors' couple orientation rendered many of the exercises virtually useless for me. I agree that love is an important part of a full, satisfying life, but defining love as marriage, or the equivalent, seems ridiculously confining! Otherwise, the book is a pleasure to read, and most of the exercises gave me useful insights, so I recommend it with reservations.
What does success mean to you now?
Lots of us are now facing career and life changes whether through layoffs or a sense of "It's time." This book can help you crystallize your own goals, your own vision for what you want to be and do. It's different for everyone. But what do you say when you get that interview question, or one like it? A successful answer is one that differentiates you from other candidates while striking a chord in the interviewer that speaks to the employer's own goals and values. I've had similar questions--"Where do you want to be in 10 years?" Twelve years ago I had the answer, and I've done most of it and more in my career, and was proud of it. Lots of my achievements have furthered the business of the companies that employed me. An interviewer may look for an answer that reflected the kind of job you do. If it's sales or production, then your answer may be "Consistently beating my daily, weekly, quarterly and annual forecasts." If it's design, "Consistently stretching the boundaries of what is possible while keeping my feet firm in what we can plausibly implement with high quality standards." If it's customer service, you might be mentioning similar high quality standards while keeping people happy. And so on. And you elaborate. But that's not all there is, is there? Right now I'm ready to follow the advice in the book: "Living in the Place you Belong, with the People you Love, doing the Right Work, on Purpose." Defining and elaborating each of the four is up to you, but it's a good starting point for those kinds of questions. Periodically reviewing your vision of success is also supposed to be a good way to avoid mid-life crises. Because you will grow in your work and life, you will change your mind about certain things. The idea is to define your life for yourself. I recommend this book to get you to ask yourself the right questions, identify unnecessary baggage, and embark on your journey.
Repacking Your Bags : Lighten Your Load for the Rest of Your
It's a good book for anyone who want to live life more happier
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